Blind date guy didn't work out. There was absolutely nothing wrong with him - - except he was on his 2nd DUI. Back to the drawing board - - and a guy who sells coffee for a living. Supposed to call him this afternoon but you know, I don't really want to screw with it. Dating - meeting new people - is kind of a total pain in the ass. I'm not one for small talk and that's all this is. Small talk galore. Ugh.
And - surprise, surprise - my ex is all over the same dating sites now. So when I log in and hunt for matches, of course his picture pops up. The picture that I took when we were married. I'm not in the mood to talk about him right now so I'll change the subject.
I mowed my giant lawn today. Took me 2 1/2 hours but I finally got it done. The ex (there I go again) came over yesterday and showed me how to work the mower. It's a beautiful day today so it wasn't that bad. I was pretty sore all over afterward so I'm thinking I got a pretty good workout in!
My realtor also came over yesterday and looked over the house. I signed a bunch of paperwork to put the house on the market. She's just waiting for me to clean it so she can take pictures and list it. Which means I'll have to keep up on the cleaning for showings. Something I haven't been that good at lately. There's shoes EVERYWHERE. I just don't care anymore. Breaks my heart to sell this place. Such a fantastic house in such a perfect neighborhood. I wonder if I'll ever be this happy again in another house and area. The thought scares me.
The lawyers are working on custody issues right now. Seems that Jim has Erik so much it's almost 50/50 in which case my lawyer says that he shouldn't have to pay full child support. So I faxed her a copy of March's calendar which shows that I actually have him 65% to Jim's 35%. Waiting to hear back from her.
Went on a motorcycle ride with R yesterday. Was actually really fun - - albeit a little scary. The weather is just so perfect lately. Was nice to ride around and feel the wind on my face.
Okay. Can't put it off any longer. Time to go talk to BLIND DATE #2. Bring on the small talk.
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